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“Do you know where a gal could get some E?”

In short

Do you know where a gal could get some E??

Registration surrendered

$8,107

Texted to a client after 54 documented sessions. Registration surrendered, $8,107.

License typeAMFT
EffectiveOctober 24, 2024
Case number2002023000019

What happened

After 54 documented sessions, the associate texted her client: “Do you know where a gal could get some E or Molly or some shit like that? Asking for a friend.” The conversation went on to drug types and quantities.

Asked whether she was drunk, she replied “Not drunk – high yes.” She proposed taking mushrooms with the client.

She disclosed being bisexual and “interested in swinging,” and said “When I'm high, I'll do anything, I would try to sleep with you.”

She insisted the friendship be kept secret.

The client complained to her employer and she was fired. She then asked the client not to report her to the Board.

What it was charged as

B&P §4982(d)

Gross negligence.

B&P §4982(i)

Recklessly causing emotional harm.

B&P §4982(e)

Violating or attempting to violate the chapter and the Board's regulations.

The outcome

Registration surrendered.

$8,107ordered in cost recovery under B&P §125.3

What the rule actually says

Asking a client not to report you to the Board is not a mitigating step taken in panic; it is an aggravating fact that goes in the accusation. The Board treats obstruction of its own process as its own category — 16 CCR §1845 makes failure to cooperate with an investigation unprofessional conduct in its own right.

Where insurance reaches, and where it does not

$8,107 in cost recovery on a case that ended in surrender is a useful number to hold next to a sublimit. A therapist with a $5,000 per-proceeding board-defense benefit is out of pocket before the Board's own costs are even counted — and cost recovery is not a defense cost, so no sublimit pays it at all.

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What would have changed it

  • Fifty-four sessions of ordinary work do not create a store of credit. The record is one text message thread.
  • The moment after you realize you have sent something like this is the moment to call a lawyer and your supervisor, in that order, and not to call the client.

Source. This write-up is drawn from the signed public decision in the case number above. Names, cities and employers have been removed — why. To pull the original, open the Board's quarterly newsletter archive, find the issue covering October 24, 2024, and match the case number in the Formal Disciplinary Actions section. Not legal advice.

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The numbers are current. The argument around them has not been reviewed since it was written.

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